Should you cut ties with unvaccinated providers?



That’s how Keith Brych, 60, sees it. Buresh, a lighting designer from Dallas, whose parents are in their 90s, says having to break up with the woman who cut his hair for nearly five years “was annoying, but it wasn’t hard.”

“I cannot willingly put myself in harm’s way or in danger for no reason,” he says, explaining that the events and companies he works with require vaccinated workers.

“I asked her in June when I saw her if she had gotten the vaccine because there were no medical problems for her… She said, ‘I didn’t.’ He told her ‘I will ask you next time.’” It is important for me to go to someone What was vaccinated?

Brisch texted the designer in early October and texted saying “she’s on the fence about this and doesn’t get it.” He replied, “So many people in my life are at risk and I can’t make a breakthrough.” She never responded, he says, and never came back.

Talk openly about the status of the vaccine

Whether someone is willing to discontinue a professional or long-term service relationship based on vaccination status may depend on various factors.

“Often, there are relationships that you want to fight for and it depends on the level of longevity” and communication you may have with the person, says relationship expert Allen Wilson.

In Charleston, South Carolina, Marilyn Haspel struggled knowing that her hairstylist hadn’t been vaccinated.

“She’s much younger and was really in a bind about that,” Haspel, 69, says, adding that she sent her stylist a CDC link with the latest information on COVID-19 and the vaccine.

Sometime before her next date, her stylist got the shot.

“Had she not been vaccinated, I would have broken off the relationship. I’ve been going to her for eight or nine years. I have that kind of relationship with her where I can talk to her frankly,” Haspel says. “I wouldn’t have gone the extra mile with someone else.”

Guzman urges those who feel the need to separate from the service provider to explain the current risks. Then use what Guzman calls “I statements” about what you want instead of saying “You are not vaccinated,” which is likely to be insulting. Show empathy by acknowledging the extent of the disappointment and the complexity of the situation. The next step may include checking again in a few months to see if things have changed.

“At this point, given the fact that COVID-19 is a sensitive topic, I might put it in the same category as talking about religion or politics,” Guzman says. “As opposed to trying to change someone else’s mind, let’s focus on ourselves and what we will or won’t do.”

In some cases, the disintegration of the vaccine can work in the opposite direction.

Massage therapist Brenda Hanley, 50, moved to the Austin suburb of Cedar Park, California, where she owned a day spa. She now works in the homes of her clients. She says an unvaccinated client broke up with her after she developed pneumonia and incorrect health information.

“She texted me she was seeing a new doctor who told me that people who have been vaccinated can make others sick,” Hanley says. “It was kind of a surprise to me that she was hinting that I was making her sick because I had the vaccine.”

Hanley texted the customer to check in, but she “hasn’t seen me to set an appointment since then.”


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